Colbie Caillat: The 21-year old “quintessential California girl,” Colbie Caillat will take the stage in the DreamCatcher Lounge at Viejas Casino. Known for her organic, low-key, refreshing style of music, Caillat will perform hits such as “Bubbly” and “Tailor Made.” The artist’s popularity has swelled over the last few months, as evidence by hits on her MySpace page MySpace.com. In October 2007 she had just 6,240 friends linked to her profile. She now has more than 100,000 people networked to her page and her song has more than 10 million plays on the site. Tickets for the 8:30 p.m. show are $25 in advance and $27.50 on the day of. Viejas is located off of Willows Road in Alpine. www.viejasentertainment.com

Lola’s Anniversary Celebration: The community is invited to attend Lola’s third anniversary celebration in the “Swank Lounge” at Martinis Above Fourth. Appetizers will be served and attendees are encouraged to bring a friend and enjoy a martini or two. The celebration is being hosted by Lola to show her appreciation to the community who has supported her fund-raising efforts during the years. Lola is looking forward to seeing everyone there! The celebration starts at 8 p.m. Martinis Above Fourth is located at 3940 Fourth Ave., Second Floor, in Hillcrest. For more information, contact Lola at 619-387-6782.

‘Code of Conduct’: Obelisk Bookstore and The Center will present Rich Merritt reading, discussing and singing his new novel Code of Conduct in The Center Auditorium at 7 p.m. A reception will follow. Merritt’s debut novel takes place in San Diego and follows gay marine Don Hawkins, the unofficial leader of a group of gay service members, all compelled to guard their sexual identity as faithfully as the served their country. It depicts the early days of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” and San Diego’s early gay scene. It was also a 15-year labor of love for Merritt reflecting the memorable times he himself had here from 1993 on.

‘Somebody to Love’: The San Diego Men’s Chorus’ first performance of the 2008 season, Somebody to Love, will feature Tony-nominated actress, singer and comedienne Sharon McNight at the Park Manor Suites rooftop lounge. The show, which is the chorus’ second Valentine cabaret, will feature the individual talents of chorus members as well as a rousing finale by the entire 55-member group.Tickets are $35 each or $60 for a couple. Showtimes are at 6 p.m. and 8:15 p.m. The Park Manor Suites is located at Fifth Avenue and Spruce Street in Hillcrest. 619-296-SONG, www.sdmc.org

‘Anyone & Everyone’: Anyone and Everyone, is a film that gives a moving account of several different American families who have a son or daughter who is gay. The story interviews families from different religious and ethnic backgrounds including Japanese, Bolivian, Cherokee, Mormon, Jews, Catholic and Hindu. Through their interviews, parents describe intimate accounts of how their children revealed to them that they were gay and also talk about struggling with the pain their sons and daughters have dealt with, such as not being accepted by relatives and friends, and being ostracized by their religious congregations. Local filmmaker Susan Polis Schutz filmed the documentary. A free public screening will be held at the San Diego Public Library from 2-4 p.m. An open forum discussion will immediately follow the film. The San Diego Public Library is located at 820 E St. in Downtown. www.anyoneandeveryone.com

San Diego Museum Month: During the month of February 2008, the San Diego Museum Council and Macy’s invite entertainment seekers in San Diego County to visit more than 30 participating institutions at half price admission. Participants must obtain a free Museum Month pass which is included in the special Museum Month brochure at all San Diego County Macy’s stores. A number of Balboa Park and other museums across the county will be participating. For a complete listing of participating museums visit www.sandiegomuseumcouncil.org.

‘Romeo & Juliet’: Direct from St. Petersburg, Russia, the St. Petersburg Ballet Theatre performs Romeo & Juliet one of the most romantic of Shakespeare’s stories accompanied by the music of Sergei Prokofiev. Choreographer Serge Vikulov and Artistic Director Yuri Petukhov have created a full-length ballet, performed in three acts, by a ballet company founded over 40 years ago as the first Theatre of Ballet in Russia. Tickets for the 7:30 p.m. event range from $30-$70. The show will be performed at the Balboa Theater located at 868 Fourth Ave. in Horton Plaza. www.sandiegotheaters.org

Aztec Hoops: Check out some Aztec Hoops action as the San Diego State University Aztec men’s basketball team takes on New Mexico. The 8 p.m. game will be played in the school’s Cox Arena. Can’t make it to the game? Tune to AM 600 KOGO for live radio coverage. Tickets are free for SDSU students, $5 for kids 6-14, seniors, military, and SDSU faculty/staff, and $7-$9 for adult admission. Tickets may be purchased online at www.ticketmaster.com or at the Cox Arena Box Office. The Cox Arena is located on 55th Street on the SDSU campus. 619-283-SDSU, www.goaztecs.cstv.com

It’s Raining Men: Single? No Valentine’s Day date? Head over to Bacchus House and find one! The club’s weekly It’s Raining Men event is hosting a very special Valentine Night party. The evening will include a Manhunt.net Hottest Single Contest with $400 in cash and prizes, followed by a special Speed Dating event starting at 10 p.m. Also, the very special guest for the evening will be one of Playgirl Magazine’s hottest stars, Adam Hillian. Register for the contest at www.bacchushouse.com or by calling 619-299-2032. Bacchus House is located at 3054 University Ave. in North Park.