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Published Thursday, 10-Sep-2009 in issue 1133
“We’re trying to change the strategy of the movement. We believe that the strategy that we have followed thus far – which was what made sense at the time and a strategy that was advanced by good, dedicated, hard-working people – is nonetheless a failed strategy. I am tired of fighting state by state, county by county, city by city for fractions of equality. I am tired of compromises and I am tired of the strategy that divides us from each other. It is time for us to unite across state boundaries in a truly nationwide movement to win full, actual equality, which can only come from the federal government. That’s not my opinion. That’s a fact. If we want to be equal under the law, we must now – as the great heroes of the civil rights movement of 1963 and 1964 showed us – turn our attention to the federal government.”
“This is our moment. This is the time to demand equality. If you lead with confidence, you can win it in 2010. Do not be afraid of it. And do not put our rights on hold any more.”
“It’s fascinating to see what’s happened in the gay and lesbian movement in the last decade. How mindsets have changed, how civil rights have applied to relationships between gays and lesbians. It’s just fantastic.”
“I decided to come out publicly (15 years ago) because I was talking to a new (British) gay magazine, Attitude, which had just started publishing. It seemed a bit ridiculous to talk to them and not say I was gay. It wasn’t a really big deal for me. But I had never discussed it with my parents at that age. I was 40 years old at this point. So it made my parents confront this issue. They were very nice about it all.”
“I went and I got diagnosed and everything and I got the special swine flu drugs. I’m better. ... I had it. It’s over. It’s done. ... It is the predominant strain of flu now. First my girlfriend got it and then I got it. It was just like a really stanky flu, and I had to take a week off and Alison Stewart did my show.”
“I had moved back to Tucson with my kids because I just thought it was quieter, and my family was there. But Tucson has turned out to be a very conservative place, and I didn’t want my kids coming home from school saying things like ‘That’s so gay.’ So we moved back to San Francisco, and I sent my kids to a school that actively taught that homophobic remarks are just not OK, and my kids’ attitudes have changed as a result of it.”
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