The GLBT community is in the process of great change. In the 35 years since Stonewall, our community has made huge strides forward establishing itself in society. Ironically, as we have carved out a clear public profile we have simultaneously lost track of one another. The GLBT community is broad and diverse, but in many respects we have splintered into factions whose paths rarely cross.

“Portrait of a community” aims to correct this imbalance by profiling the men and women who make up our community in an environment that describes him or her best. Additionally, each portrait includes a conversation about the substance of each individual’s life and how he or she views some of the cornerstones of his or her GLBT experience.

In time, the goal of this column is to create a complete and inclusive portrait of our community, one person at a time.

Name: MaryBeth Hughes

Age: Shall remain a mystery

Self-definition: Flexible

Where were you at 9:00 a.m. last Sunday morning?

I was buying organic fruits and vegetables at the Hillcrest Farmers Market on Normal Street.

What person has influenced you more than any other, and how?

My sister has been my greatest influence and strength. She has continued to stand by me even when I was not exhibiting my most attractive behavior. She has, by example, taught me about two of the most important solutions to the pain in my life: forgiveness and unconditional love.

When do you feel unequal?

I don’t feel equal when my self-doubt and fear are greater than my confidence and faith.

Where were you last Wednesday at noon?

I was teaching a private Latin dance lesson to a new student who had wanted to learn to dance salsa for five years and had finally overcome the resistance.

When was the last time you felt proud?

Most recently, I felt proud when I was able to walk away from the end of a long-term relationship without drama.

If there was a defining moment in your life, what was it?

I would say that it was the day I realized that I did not have to do everything on my own. By allowing people to help me, the tough times in my life have become a little easier and the joyful times have been greatly amplified.

Where were you at 10:00 p.m. last Friday night?

I was on my way to a milonga to dance Argentine tango.

What is your most immediate goal?

I would like to be singing and playing jazz regularly in San Diego.

When do you feel total joy?

I am at my happiest when I am in the music: dancing, singing or playing my flute or sax.

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