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Operation Rebirth
Published Thursday, 05-Feb-2004 in issue 841
Democratic primary elections were held in seven states this week, however, presidential hopefuls disproportionately channeled a majority of their energies to one state in particular — South Carolina. In this key southern state they were afforded their first shot at gaining the support of black voters — seen as a crucial component in defeating George W. Bush. Polls show some 40 percent of that state’s Democratic voters consider themselves to be conservative to very conservative, more likely to attend church and more opposed to gay marriage.
Given this demographic, it’s safe to say that the leading Democratic contenders, who all support same-sex unions in some capacity (Rev. Al Sharpton, the only African-American currently in the race, supports same-sex marriage), probably downplayed gay support somewhat in the palmetto state.
It is just this lack of support for same-sex relationships among African-Americans in South Carolina and elsewhere that a growing number of black leaders across the country are organizing to change.
And they know just where to begin.
As with the populace in general, the fear, hatred and shame associated with homosexuality in the black community can be traced to a primary source — the church and its historical condemnation of GLBT people. However, where the black community is concerned, the church has perhaps played a more critical role in establishing social mores than among any other demographic in this country. Of course, the prevailing message African-Americans have received from spiritual leaders, taken out into the broader community, and, largely embraced, is not pretty. Though tolerance and acceptance of GLBT people is growing in segments of the black community, overall homosexuality continues to be treated in ways ranging from the elephant in the living room to an unpardonable sin.
The black church’s sphere of influence
“The black church is enormously influential in the black community,” 38-year-old Keith Boykin told the Gay and Lesbian Times. Having served two turbulent years in the Clinton White House that started with ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ and ended with the removal of Dr. Joycelyn Elders from her position as surgeon general, Boykin is the current president of the newly formed National Black Justice Coalition (NBJC). The group is working to galvanize black leaders to rally around the issue of marriage equality and help defeat the Bush administration’s so-called “Marriage Protection Act” (their list of supporters, gay and straight, thus far includes former San Francisco Mayor Willie Brown, Whoopi Goldberg, Coretta Scott King, Al Sharpton and others).
“The church helps to dictate our social and moral values,” said Boykin. “So, to whatever extent we can help to reframe the conversation as a civil rights issue, instead of a religious issue, I think we win the debate.”
“The core of the black community is pretty much the black church,” echoed Tuan N’Gai, co-founder of Operation Rebirth, a newly formed organization targeting black churches throughout the country that promote discrimination against gays and lesbians. “If we’re going to affect change in the black community we need to start with the most powerful entity or organization, which, by and large, is the church. We want to effect change and let them know that this is not about bashing or attacking them…. We are their brothers and sisters and we have to work together if we’re going to change our community.”
Operation Rebirth is kick-starting its mission to reeducate the black community on homosexuality and religion through an online grassroots’ campaign targeting black gay men and women who financially support homophobic churches. Operation Rebirth’s website includes reviews of gay-bashing sermons given by pastors throughout the country in an effort to heighten public awareness.
“The church historically has demonized sex and sexuality,” N’Gai noted. “They feel that sex is only permitted between a man and a wife when they are trying to procreate — and any deviation from that is perverted, is not of god, and needs to be done away with…. We need to reeducate the church about sex — [that] it’s a part of who we are as human beings and it is something that god created that should be celebrated…. The church has a role in teaching people how to use sexuality responsibly.”
Pastor Brenda Evans of Christ Chapel of North Park grew up in the Missionary Baptist Church of Gary, Indiana. The openly lesbian faith leader, whose congregation is open to all, said she came out in her early twenties and experienced none of the discrimination many gay and bisexual African-American men face within the black community. Nevertheless, she recognizes the bashing that goes on in many black churches and the tremendous power faith leaders wield in shaping attitudes in the black community.
“We grew up in the church learning about god and having faith and standing firm,” said Evans. “Even though there’s no money, you just pray and you know that god is going to come through for you. We grew up with those values…. It’s sad to me that, as much faith as we have, that there are those who are being rejected by the church because of ignorance of the Bible from those who are teaching it. I hate to put it that way, but we believe what we hear literally without having a historical background or any fact to it.”
A legacy of intolerance
Rev. Charles Lanier of Unity Fellowship of Christ Church in San Diego will celebrate his all-embracing church’s second year in November. Lanier’s congregation currently has about 25 members, and is helping feed the homeless twice a month in downtown San Diego.
“As opposed to religion, Unity is a spirituality,” Lanier explained. “We each have a personal relationship with the creator. We say that god is alive in the Jewish synagogue, in the Muslim mosque … and in the scripture — god is everywhere present and available.”
Lanier said that if someone would have told him he’d be the leader of his own congregation 10 years ago when he was living on the streets of Los Angeles struggling with crack addiction, he’d never have believed it. Lanier cites spiritual abuse he grew up with in the church as a factor in his previous life of promiscuity and drug and alcohol abuse. Discovering the GLBT-affirming Unity Fellowship and its pastor, Archbishop Carl Bean, he said, was his ticket from ruin.
“I was a child that enjoyed church, so when I hit puberty and it started to occur to me that the way I’d always felt about other boys might be the way that I’d spend my life, I immediately became very depressed,” said Lanier. “I was smoking reefer and drinking at 13; doing angel dust and pills at 16…. I really started disliking and hating myself as a result of what I was taught in religion.”
Lanier recalled the early days of the AIDS epidemic, and the black church’s standard response. “We were all really very afraid; no one knew how it was transmitted…. I remember clearly the black church’s response. They were saying that it was god’s judgment against homosexuals. That was one of the prevailing messages being perpetuated in the black community … and I believed that myself then.”
Reggie Avant, a minister in residence at the Metropolitan Community Church of San Diego, grew up in Compton, California in a similarly intolerant environment. At 44, he has happily reconciled his faith with his sexual orientation, though his personal liberation came only after he came out of the closet at 36.
Avant grew up in the ultra-fundamentalist Pentecostal Church. “All my life I had heard that homosexuality was a sin…. I heard it preached consistently from the pulpit. If you’re gay, it’s an abomination before god and you’ll die and go to hell. My dad used to call [gays] ‘funny’ — he hated gay people with a passion.”
Despite the anti-gay messages Avant was bombarded with during his formative years, he remained undaunted in his faith, going on to attend Loyola University and pursue life as a religious leader.
“It was horrible,” said Avant of his time at Loyola. “In my second year there was a student that was kicked out [for being gay]. He was a friend of mine and it scared me to death….
“I had my real first sexual experience at seminary with another student there,” he added. “I had never kissed a man until then. It was a wonderful experience, but it scared me so much that I still could not come out.”
“It’s sad to me that, as much faith as we have, there are those who are being rejected by the church because of ignorance of the Bible from those who are teaching it.” — Pastor Brenda Evans of Christ Chapel of North Park
After seminary school, Avant took a job at a black Presbyterian church in Oakland, California. “It was very, very homophobic,” he recalled. “I remember someone saying one day that they had this big wedding service for gay people in San Francisco.” The response from the pastor was, predictably, “‘That’s a shame before god; let’s pray for them.’”
Still deep in the closet, Avant got engaged to a woman at age 35. Within the next year, he attempted suicide.
Like Lanier, Avant eventually found hope at an affirming church. “When I did come out, I began to understand, not only what it meant to be gay, but to be an African-American gay [man]. There was a church in San Francisco called the City of Refuge and they were predominantly a church for gay and lesbian people. The pastor was gay and she had a partner. That’s the first time I ever saw that many African-American people in a place of worship for gay people who felt comfortable with who they were, who knew they weren’t going to die and go to hell.”
Arvella Murray, the executive director of the Hillcrest-based Center for Social Support and Education, which works to deliver HIV/AIDS education and risk reduction programs to people of color, noted a trend towards more tolerant attitudes within the black church. She attributed this to a more educated clergy.
“Where before it often used to be a lay person that would end up being the ministers of the churches, there’s been a distinct evolution in the ministerial industry within the black churches,” she said. “The African Methodist Episcopalian (AME) church requires a college degree…. Oftentimes you’ll find that, these days, in order to attract a membership, [churches] appear to be more contemporary than they have been in the past.”
However, if testimonials of verbal gay bashings on Operation Rebirth’s website are any indication, a significant portion of today’s black churches are recalcitrant in their outspoken condemnation of same-sex relations.
Boykin noted a call he received last week from a professor at Brown University in regards to a gay bashing sermon at Mt. Moriah Baptist Church in Brockton, Massachusetts.
“The minister launched into a diatribe about same-sex marriage, the abomination of homosexuality and how god ‘created Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve,’” said Boykin. “Feeling out of place as a black gay man in a black church, my friend explained, ‘This must be what it felt like to be a Jew in Nazi Germany.’ … He was horrified by the experience.”
Naturally, part of the problem lies in Christianity’s longtime anti-gay interpretation of biblical texts. Brought up believing god’s disdain of homosexuality as unwavering fact, many leaders in the black church staunchly defend their anti-gay positions— which they don’t seem likely to change any time soon.
A prime example of such unyielding attitudes towards gays and lesbians is San Diego’s own Rev. George Stevens. Though not an ordained minister in any church, as a former deputy mayor and one who continues to preach “all over the city,” Stevens continues to wield his intolerant influence over San Diego’s African-American community.
As a member of the city council, Stevens refused to sign a proclamation in honor of the San Diego Pride Parade each year, frequently voting against the GLBT community. However, it is perhaps his well-known penchant for associating gays with a litany of criminals and drug addicts that raises the ire of GLBT San Diegans the most.
To this day, Stevens continues to defend this thought process.
“I love homosexuals, lesbians — I’ll love them to the day I die,” Stevens, who currently works in the office of Assemblymember Shirley Horton, recently told the Gay and Lesbian Times. “I love gay people, I love drunks, alcoholics, prostitutes, pimps, I love ‘em…. I also loved my daddy and he was an alcoholic…. I don’t support an adulteress. I wouldn’t let somebody shacking up live in my house…. That’s what the Bible say….”
Asked if Stevens himself considers himself among the aforementioned ranks of those he loves so well, he admitted to having committed adultery.
“Yes, yes, and I’ve been forgiven by god — that’s the difference. But you can’t keep doing something wrong and then think it’s right and don’t ever ask for forgiveness.”
Stevens said he often feels his views are taken out of context.
“You can say, ‘Well, why don’t you march in the gay pride parade?’ — because I wouldn’t march in the prostitute parade. Now you say, ‘Well, here we’re going again with you comparing gays to prostitutes.’ Well, I believe they both are wrong — and that’s why I have it in there. I know that gays use the words ‘civil rights’ and they compare it with the marches and demonstrations that black people [took part in]. I don’t do that. It’s totally different, because, [if you] see a gay person walking down the street without swishing like a woman, nobody notices them, because they’re white. It doesn’t matter how I walk down the street, I catch hell, so you can’t compare that….”
Stevens noted longtime GLBT activist Nicole Murray-Ramirez among his friends. “My ministry is loving people to get them to change to go to heaven…. I don’t want anyone to go to hell, and, without salvation, that’s where they’re headed…. I don’t care whether or not it’s a gay or whether or not it’s a lesbian, that’s why you’re going to hell.”
“You can’t take salvation away once it’s given,” challenged Evans. “Thank god we don’t have that authority…. If it were up to us, who would be saved? If it was just up to man, for anybody we don’t like, [we’d say], ‘You’re not saved; you’re out of the kingdom,’ because we’re biased.”
Evans said she believes teaching that gays and lesbians are on a one-way ticket to the lake of fire is a blatant misinterpretation of the scriptures.
“It is a misinterpretation,” she said. “I feel that it causes people to walk more away from god…. I can’t say that they’re wrong and I’m right…. All I can say is what god has given me in my heart. If [a minister’s] interpretation is [literal], why aren’t they loving them to Christ? Why are they still trying to banish them from the kingdom of god? We do not have that right. If you feel that way, keep it to yourself and pray for that person and ask god to show you [the way].”
“I’ve watched people literally be endowed with the power of the Holy Ghost from various different churches,” Evans continued. “Once the church finds out that they are not just like them, then they’re ready to kick them out. Well, hello, that’s the same person that was endowed with the power of the Holy Ghost a year ago. That’s the same person who’s been doing your music, that’s the same person who loves the lord and who has cried at your feet and the only thing now is you found out that they’re not like you.”
Despite his views on homosexuality, Stevens noted his support for gay teachers when an anti-gay initiative threatened to strip them of their jobs.
“I voted against that,” said Stevens. “I wouldn’t vote that a person because their sexual preference can’t teach, because many times they are some of the best teachers. However, I would do everything I can if that man wore a dress to school; I would do everything I could if the woman was just always wearing pants with a set of keys hanging off of it…. If you’re gay, don’t get up and advocate that in front of the classroom … but it’s coming that way, I know it’s going to be that way…. In this week’s TV Guide there’s two women kissing each other on the cover…. The Bible talks about Sodom and Gomorrah. As a result of what their lifestyle was it was burned down…. So there’s a destruction that comes with immorality. I’m not limiting that to homosexuality ... lying, stealing, murder is immoral.”
“I can’t really enjoy my liberation unless I help others experience it.” — Tuan N’Gai, co-founder of Operation Rebirth
Ironically, Stevens said he agrees that the church needs to move to a more tolerant position on homosexuality. “You can’t hate ‘em and love ‘em at the same time,” he maintained.
Free at last, free at last
“I had to let go of my religious upbringing,” said Lanier of his transformation towards self-acceptance. “I had to let go of trying to get approval from my family and community and I had to begin loving me…. As a result of that, I started having peace.”
Lanier also cited literal interpretations of the Bible as a primary source of anti-gay attitudes. “I’m not a literalist, I’m a progressive,” he said. “When people say that you have to follow the Bible word for word, I say that’s not true, because there are scriptures in there that say clearly that black people should be slaves…. Slavery is clearly documented in there.”
Among the most widely used biblical passages used to justify slavery are Genesis 9:25-27, in which Canaan is cursed to be “the lowest of slaves … to his brothers.” Christians traditionally believed Canaan had settled in Africa, thus Africans became associated with this Old Testament curse and slavery of Africans became religiously justifiable.
“I love to talk to black ministers when they say, ‘Well, this is what the Bible says,” said Lanier. “It has been documented that Africa had great civilizations, had institutions of learning and was highly developed before they were ever introduced to Christianity. God was really alive and working and blessing people there long before they ever heard of Jesus or Judaism. So for any black person whose ancestors were introduced to Christianity through slavery to say that it’s the only way really paints our whole heritage invisible. I will not do that …. We never question the fact that we were given our Christianity through slavery. We have to study and discern for ourselves.”
“Part of the problem is that black ministers are preaching [with] the same methods that their more conservative white colleagues are preaching,” said Boykin. “As African-Americans, we historically have used the Bible and Christianity as a tool for liberation — not as an instrument for oppression. Unfortunately, we’ve learned some of the wrong lessons from our experiences.”
Lanier challenges the historical origin of the church’s teaching that sex should only be used for procreation.
“I say God made Adam, Eve and Steve. If you look at it through the lens of how they lived then, the Jews really needed to procreate, because they had been conquered, … so everyone needed to have children. And anything outside of producing children was called an abomination or a sin.”
“When I was a child I lived in Watts, California, but I went to school in Huntington Park…. I remember white people there were having eight or ten children and black people were having eight or ten children and now they’re all talking about birth control. So, when they say that sex is about procreation, none of them are having sex to make babies, they’re having sex because it feels good and it’s a way that people bond.”
Raised in the Missionary Baptist Church, N’Gai made the metaphorical jump from the frying pan into the fire when he joined the Pentecostal Church as an adult. He has remained there for several reasons, chief among them he said is to help facilitate change in one of the most homophobic factions of the black church.
“I stay with the Pentecostal Church because I believe that once you truly taste the liberty the truth provides, you are compelled to share that truth with others so they too can experience liberation,” N’Gai explained. “Much like Sojourner Truth, who made more than 300 trips on the Underground Railroad to help slaves escape, I can’t really enjoy my liberation unless I help others experience it.”
“Pentecostal is very serious … almost legalistic,” he explained. “They’re very passionate about their beliefs and their doctrines that they practice.”
However, he added, “The black Pentecostal Church as a whole isn’t a bad entity. I have learned how to worship, pray more effectively, and I have a more intimate relationship with god because of the teaching I have received in the church. I see my staying with the church as an opportunity for me to teach, as well as a chance to continue worshipping god in the manner that I have found most conducive to my relationship with him.”
Boykin faces the debate about acceptance of homosexuality in the black church often on a daily basis. His most recent foray into the debate was as a guest on former New York Mayor David Dinkin’s radio show.
“I am always prepared for these interviews with black radio shows,” said Boykin. “Whenever I go I always bring my Bible and the Constitution, because I know people are going to start misquoting both of them. In this case the same thing happened. People immediately launched into Adam and Eve and Sodom and Gomorrah stories and all this other nonsense. And people really miss the point — that we’re all in this together, we’re all African-Americans, and we all are part of the same family, and we all deserve to be treated equally. Regardless of what you think about homosexuality, heterosexuality or bisexuality, you have to accept the principal that all Americans are deserving of equal rights.”
The price of silence
“How many times have we been in churches where a minister berated us and then we never said a word to confront him?” asked Boykin. “How many times have we given our tithes and offerings to a church where the preacher just finished delivering an anti-gay sermon? Part of the problem is that far too many black gays and lesbians are going to churches like these and being beaten up and abused and then essentially tolerating it. They’ve been conditioned to accept this type of treatment and they don’t really challenge it. Hopefully people will start to challenge that in the churches — that’s really critical to the success of any type of black LGBT organizing. People have to start to overcome the religious opposition…. It’s 2004 and it’s time for us to stop that self-loathing behavior and challenge our ministers on their homophobia.”
Avant also sees this as the primarly solution. “I believe that men and women who are African-American [and GLBT] in churches have to stand up and say who they are — and is it going to cost? Yeah, it’ll cost. When I think about my own experience, there was a cost. They would say, ‘Gosh, you were up and coming as a minister and now you just lost everything.’ I may have lost a lot of material stuff, but as far as who I am as a person, it was a huge gain for me.”
Community health implications
N’Gai further noted the stigma that leads black men to be on the so-called “down low,” involved in heterosexual relationships with wives or girlfriends while having clandestine, often unsafe, sex with other men — putting their heterosexual partners at risk for contracting sexually transmitted diseases.
“I think the problem with the whole DL scene is people are just not being honest. It’s not a same-gender loving thing or a heterosexual or a bisexual thing. I think the whole DL thing is a matter of character. These are people who are lying to their spouses or to their families or their girlfriends about who they are, things that they like sexually and they’re afraid to talk about it. So they have created this little subculture called DL where the only place where they address this issue is when they’re around other brothers who are on the DL…. And they really aren’t considering the danger of that.”
Another factor leading to the stigma against homosexuality in the black community, said N’Gai is perpetuation of the notion that AIDS remains a disease of gay, white males.
“A lot of people in the church believe that homosexuality is Eurocentric in its origin and has been put into the black community by white people,” he said. “You know, black men are not gay — period, that’s basically one of the beliefs of the black church…. We need to get rid of that.
“People really miss the point — that we’re all in this together, we’re all African-Americans, and we all are part of the same family, and we all deserve to be treated equally.” — Keith Boykin, president of the National Black Justice Coalition
“Part of our mission is to let people know that homosexuality has [historically] been a part of the black community,” added N’Gai. “It’s not something that is indigenous to one ethnicity. This is a human issue, not a racial issue…. It is part of the black experience. It was back in Africa before the Africans were brought over here on slave ships. It was part of our culture then. We really try to educate the black community about homosexuality…. Hopefully, we’ll be able to effect social change, at large, by doing so.”
Inevitably, the issue of changing hearts and minds in the black community always returns to the church.
“I think change needs to come from the pulpit,” maintained Avant. “Ministers need to begin to dialogue. They need to begin to have a conversation about this issue and be willing to investigate what the scripture really says about this; be willing to come to the table and dialogue with people.
“If that doesn’t happen, then I really do see African-American men, as far as a race and culture, being destroyed in some sense.”
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